This is going to sound odd, but the thing I like least and the thing that I like best are the same thing. Don’t you hate when you have any negative feelings. If your dog died I would assume you would be sad. That’s what I like least, the moods that make you feel like your life is over. Even though it’s really not. Like I said earlier the thing that I like the least is also the thing that I like the best. I know what you are thinking, “So, you like being sad?!” The answer to that question is definitely no, but I also wouldn’t want my life without any sad moments. All the disappointing times make the good times seem like you have it all. If I only had happy moments I would expect everything to go my way and if it doesn’t I would be devastated. The bad times make the good times feel great. Therefore, I like the terrible times the least because who wants to feel terrible? I also like the terrible times the best because the effect of those times make everything seem like a piece of cake.
What a great thought!! I think that is a very unique spin on the question. I never would have thought about appreciating the terrible times because they make for wonderful times! But, it is a very true statement and it definitely caused me to think! Wonderful job!!
Julie, I had to read this a few times because I didnt quite understand what you were saying. I understand now and your 100% accurate. The happy moments make us very jubillent, but the sad are okay too. I know the sad are not amusing but they build up our character study. And the happy are there to make us feel good.
I totally agree! This is a fantastic thought. I never reallly thought that the sad and depressing moments probably make the great and special seem like even more than before! Awesome job!
I can relate to what you are saying, I have had a lot of depressing moments in my life. They turn sad, and oddly, happy at the same time! So yes, I agree completely with what you are saying.
Great answer. Sometimes I think about that, too. The bad times in your life make the good times seem like a piece of cake. You're right, I wouldn't want a life with no bad moments.
I never really thought about that, but now that you wrote it, it makes perfect sense! I completely agree with you! Sad feelings and depressing moments are awful, but to imagine life without them? That would be awful, too! It’s like the song Stronger, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger!” :)
Like you said in your comment, we need the bad time to make the good times feel great. If my dog died, and I wasn’t sad, when I got a new dog, it would just feel like another day went by. We need the bad, for the good
The best and worst things about my life are not being scared of some things. See, I am one of the few people who aren't afraid of death. Death is something that cannot be avoided. Do not wonder how or when you will die, because that will make you paranoid. When you are paranoid, you miss out on enjoying life. Meanwhile, when you are not afraid of death, you may think it is not a big deal, right? IT IS. This is a very gloomy topic, I know. Now, thinking you're immortal is possibly one of the worst things you can do. It's like me, being a martial artist, sparring someone and thinking, "Hey, he isn't going to punch me! I will win!" When the punch comes, it will hurt that much more. It's better to brace for death, unafraid, than to let your guard down, and make it weigh on you that much more.
I do fear death after witnessing it. But like Julie said you need the bad time to make those good times feel that much better. You are right death is a HUGE deal.
Death is something that many people often worry about, and people definitely deal with it in numerous ways. I think that being afraid of things is probably a good and bad thing. Interesting thoughts.
Death, death, and more death. It is something that happens every single day. There is no need to fear it because like you said you cannot avoid it. This is also like what Julie said in her comment and what Michael said in his reply, you have to have the lows in life, although you always want everything to be great.
I am afraid of death. Yes, I know it happens everyday and there is no way to avoid it. But, like Julie said the bad moments make the good moments feel that much better.
Wow, I was not expecting that! Death is a very gloomy topic, like you said. I have to admit, I am scared of it. There are so many things I still want to do. But if we worry too much about it, then we won't do any of the things we want to do!
I didn’t completely understand what you like the least and the best. But everything that you had to say was really true! Maybe try to make the main statement a little bit clearer though.
Death is something that happens everyday. Who knows, maybe one of those people will be someone who you know, or maybe even you. The thing is that if you let that thought affect you, you might never might be able to do the things you want to do that risk death. I must admit that I am afraid of death. But, I don’t let that stop me doing the things I love, and it shouldn’t for you either.
I completely agree with you, but sometimes we get to caught up in what’s going on in someone else's life, then to pay any attention to ours. We need to least suspect things to make us prepared for others. Anyway great comment!
Death is something that I have trouble with since my dad died at a young age. I am not afraid of it for myself, but I am afraid of losing someone else I really love, like my mom.
The thing I like the best about my life is that I'm able to learn things quickly. I learned multiplication quickly. I play baseball and when taught something I pick it up quickly. I do sometimes not pick up on something and take a while to get but, I do eventually get it. Somethings I will never understand though, like why we need to learn long division. The thing I like least in my life is that some school can be stressful. I have a lot of things to do sometimes. This gives me very little time to do work. The nights I have games I get one or two things of homework done. That still gives me another half hour of homework. Not all work is stressful, but sometimes it is only a little while other times it can be really stressful. So all in all my life is pretty cool. There are somethings I would like to change but can’t.
Unfortunately, never having enough hours in the day get done everything that needs to get done is always a problem for everyone. Learning things quickly is definitely an awesome thing to be able to do. It keeps things positive. Try not to stress too much right now in life; keep things in perspective and simply do your best. It usually all works out. Great job!
Like you pick up on things very quickly. For me too, homework can be very stressful. That’s partly why I did not partake in parcc. The stress kills me because I expect a lot from myself.
I agree Michael. After being in school many kids have after school activities that they take part in and it leaves only a small amount of time for homework. This makes homework quite stressful. I am the same way. I pick up things fast and sometimes homework is stressful for me, too.
Having too many things to do has always been a problem of mine too! Homework is stressful for all kids. All the work piles up and piles up! I think that picking up things quickly is a great quality to have!
I completely agree! I also tend to learn stuff quickly, but some things I know I will never get good at. I also agree that work can be stressful. I often catch myself panicking over one silly thing. When I have softball games I stress over getting my homework done since I don’t have a lot of time.
I have so much stress too! Like, for an example, this weekend I have to finish a whole rough draft, a science report, AND a science project that I didn’t even start yet! Just thinking about that all makes my stomach turn. I also think that learning stuff quickly is a great quality to have!
If we had less homework, we would be less stressful. Teachers act like we have nothing else to do but do homework, but we need it to make us stronger, and smarter. We learn things fast if we like it. Just like your homework, in order to get it!
Although I have many things in my life that I am very grateful for, I think that if I needed to only choose a few, the BEST days in my life would have to be when my daughters were born, and the day I married my husband. I mean, many other things have happened throughout my life that I have enjoyed, but those mentioned were definitely the BEST! I can remember the day that both my daughters were born like it was yesterday. They were so tiny, and absolutely adorable. Madison, being my first, I was thrilled to become a mom, and when Maitland was born, I couldn’t wait for her to meet her big sister, Madison. I was very excited to watch their relationship grow as siblings. Marrying my husband, well what girl wouldn’t love her wedding day! Beautiful weather, gorgeous lace dress, fabulous shoes, and our family and friends surrounding us! It was a wonderful celebration and a great party! Changing gears completely… the worst day of my life thus far was November 23rd, 2008. This is the day I found out that my father had died. He lived down in Melbourne, Florida on his sailboat. As the story goes, supposedly he had fallen overboard sometime Thursday evening, but wasn’t found until Monday morning. Unfortunately he had drowned and we got the call Monday after they had found him. It is a very surreal feeling, but I know he died doing what he loved, so I get some peace knowing that. I know he is in a better place now, and hope, perhaps, one day I will see him again.
I am sure when your daughters were born you were the happiest person in the world. Who wouldn't be? Death on the other hand, causes much sadness and tears. It is always good to think when someone dies that they died doing what they loved to do.
It must feel great seeing your kids born, and getting married to someone you love! But of course death is basically a part of life. I haven’t witnessed much death, but things are starting to happen, as the years pass. I think that that was a very true and very good answer!
I can’t say I can relate because I don’t have kids and I am also not married. I could imagine getting married and having kids are huge moments in anyone’s life. I also didn’t have many major deaths in my life. Death can be a terrible feeling so, I understand why that probably isn’t the best thing in your life.
I can definitely think that someone’s best day of their life is when your daughters were born and when you got married! That must have been a surreal experience, and a awesome part of life! But, sadly, death is also a part of life. But, death can get better if you think of it on the bright side that he died doing something he loved to do.
I think that your dad meant to make you have your daughters, so that you have someone to think of in a loving caring way. This is tragic, but it was going to happen sooner or later, and you had your daughter to get through the loss with you. Still, I’m sorry for your loss.
What I like the best in life is my ability in athletics as well as my ability to do well in school. I am a smart kid (I think!), but I am very good at lacrosse and football. My favorite subject in school is math, it just comes very quickly to me. Every season I play whether it’s lacrosse or football I can’t decide on which one I like better. If I’m playing football I’ll say,” Football is my favorite sport.” Then if I’m playing lacrosse, it’ll be my favorite at the time. My LEAST favorite thing is most definitely Social Studies (history). I think that there is no point in learning about Chandragupta or any other thing/person in B.C. times. If it is something bad like the Indians being taken over, why should we have to learn about somebody else’s mistake. WHAT IS THE POINT! What already happened is in the past it can not be changed.
I see where you are coming from about the history. Why do we care about India?! They are not learning about our history or presidents! I feel the same way about my "athletic ability"
Good ideas! I think having athletic and academic abilities is definitely something that you should be proud of. Some people work extremely hard for success in both of those areas. It is awesome if they come naturally to you. I also think that I agree with you some what about history. I definitely enjoy learning about the history of OUR country and the countries around us, but B.C. times is very uninteresting to me. Great job!
I think having athletic abilities is very useful. It could get you a scholarship for college and you wouldn't have to pay anything. I agree with you when you said you hate social studies. I think it is useless information. But as my teacher says, "They teach you about it so it doesn't happen again."
I think it’s great that academics, and athletics come easy to you! And I COMPLETELY agree with you about history. I don’t care about anything that happens B.M., before ME!
I absolutely agree nobody needs to know why Chandragupta conquered Magadha. We are only going to forget everything we learned over summer break. Teachers always say we learn history so we don’t make the same mistakes, but it’s hard to compare things when the past and future are so different. The United States is probably not going to conquer any temples so, we can’t make the mistakes they made. We should be looking what is in front of us not in the past.
I think being smart and athletic is very useful. But, personally, I disagree with you about social studies. People say that what’s the point! The U.S. and India have nothing in common! We should be focusing on the future not the past! But, how do you know that in the future we won’t be doing stuff that we did in the past, or what other countries did? That’s the thing, you DON’T. I don’t like learning about history, but I do think that we need to learn it. The past and the future could be very similar in bad ways and good ways, or the could be very different. We just don’t know, but we need to make sure it’s not the same in bad ways. Who knows, maybe we will be conquering temples soon in the future? You just don’t know that the future and the past will be different.
I completely agree with you. What is the point of anything that didn’t happen in the US, but we learn so history doesn't repeat itself. Things will change, and we don’t want another World War, so it is important.
I know what you’re probably thinking, that the worst thing about my life is that I get bullied by some people, but it’s not. Its that I’m not as skinny as you would expect me to be. Yes, I know it doesn’t matter at the end of the day what other people think of me , it’s what i think of myself, and it doesn’t matter what I look like, it’s what I feel like. At least in the future I know it’s not what I look like, it’s all about what my special skills in life. The best thing in life is that I have friend who like me for no matter what I look like. That my friends will always be there for me when I sad. Now, the worst thing in my life, is solved by my friends who care. I have friends, who love me for me, so weight, and size doesn’t matter as much.
Andie, I’m really surprised that you think that of yourself! What you said is completely true, it doesn’t matter what other people think of you, it’s what you think of yourself/what you feel like. Then having friends who can help you is even better.
Unfortunately, that is definitely something that you should not be worrying about at this point in your life! You are way too young to think that you are "fat." Also, it is not healthy to consume yourself with those kinds of thoughts. You are a very pretty young lady, and you are athletic. Always keep in perspective that muscle weighs more than fat! It is a good weight! I am glad that you have friends that care about you. That is always a blessing in life. Good job!
I'm surprised you think that of yourself. It doesn't matter what other people think of you. They should like you for who you are. Not try to change you and make you feel horrible about yourself.
Andie, no, no, no, no, no, no! PLEASE don’t think that of yourself, because it’s not true! And it doesn’t matter what you look like, like you said in your comment. I also agree with you that friends are who bring you up when you’re down. I think everyone deserves a friend, no matter who they are, or what they look like.
Andie, you were really brave for saying that. I have to agree sometimes I look in the mirror and I am not happy with what I see and want to change myself, but I NEVER look in the mirror and think what I like about myself. I think you should do that more, look in the mirror and say what you like about yourself.
Andie, you are way to young to think about that! You actually should never be thinking about that! But, I do think you are brave that you were able to say that to everyone. Still, don’t worry about that. And, like you said in your comment, in the end, what’s in the inside counts the most above everything. And, friends help you feel that way.
Well, I love my life. I wouldn’t trade my life in for anybody’s life, even famous people. But, obviously I must have a least favorite part of my life. Mine is all the pressure. I HATE the pressure. I know that hate is a strong word, but I do strongly hate the pressure. Yeah, I know you might say that “just ignore it” or “don’t worry about it” but that’s the thing. I CAN’T. Some people might know what I’m talking about and some people have no clue. If you are one of those people who have no clue what it’s like to have so pressure on you, I despise you. I get pressured with my grades, sports, pretty much everything. I wish all the pressure would just… disppear. But, of course it won’t. No matter what you say like “you’re not under pressure, it’s fine if you don’t win” or “don’t worry, it will all go away. It will all be okay.” It won’t. Trust me, I should know. Whenever I say I don’t like the pressure EVERYONE says that, and it’s just not true. The best part of life is ,well, all of the good friends and family. You know how I said everything about the pressure? Well, all my freinds and family TRY to make things better and I appreciate it, I really do. I know there are bad moments that happen with my family and friends. But, that’s really all they are. Moments of bad times hidden in years, even decades, of fantastic, special, great times.
I feel the same way. If I’m playing in a lacrosse or football game I get really stressed because if I make a mistake, I know that my coach or my dad will absolutely yell at me. Also in school if i get a bad grade I get really mad at myself because I know I can do better than that. I put a lot of unwanted stress/pressure on myself. And I’m sure many others do too.
Pressure is something that will never go away. Unfortunately, it is an issue that you will deal with for the majority of your life. My advice to you would be to try and learn different ways to handle it. Also, try not to "sweat the small stuff." There are different levels of stress and pressure for different things. If it is something big, by all means, feel the pressure...but maintain composure and try to handle it with as much control as possible. Friends and family are always a huge part of keeping you grounded. Never lose sight of that, and be appreciative each and every day. Great job!
I feel pressure too! No matter what we do it will always be there. We just have to try are best (although it’s very hard) to get over it. Friends and family will always be there for you though, and that’s what eases the pain of pressure! I don’t know how anyone could do without them!
I think EVERYONE deals with pressure. If nobody is giving you pressure I bet you are giving yourself pressure. People in my class expect me to get the highest grades and that’s a lot of pressure. But I think I give myself more pressure because for some reason I think ONE test grade will determine my future. I know my friends really don’t care if I do bad on a test, but I do. That’s the thing sometimes I put so much pressure on myself it’s overwhelming.
Pressure, should not be a part of our life when we are this young. Family, friends can always get you out of the dumps when you have pressure. Things will change, and so will the pressure, so be ready.
The best and worst things? Interesting question. I guess the worst thing in life is telling yourself you're changing. In about 10 years what we have now won't be the same anymore. It gives me chills thinking about it. We might not have the same friends. We might not have the same home. We might not have the same life. The best thing is when youre changed you think back to when you were in pre school and all you cared about was unicorn stickers and naptime. Now youre thinking about school work and pressure. I know what your thinking: “ That confusing. You like thinking back to before change, but you dont like thinking of upcoming changes?” I know I confused myself to a little. But what I mean is you are scared of change until it accualy happens. Its like an akward ice cream flavor that you dont want to try, but is accualy amazing. If you get where Im going then you understand that change is scary. Its one of the the worlds biggest fears. But change is also okay.
Change and uncertainty is always something that weigh heavy on everyone's mind. The fear of the unknown is a major issue. However, it is also a very exciting issue. Growing up can be scary, but with each passing year comes new adventures and new opportunities that you didn't have before. And, before you know it, everything will be different. But, change is good. So, as frightening as it may be, try to embrace change and face it head on; you can't avoid it. Great job!
Change sometimes can be quite frightening. You are right when you are changing you think back to the times when you are in preschool and naptime. You just have to be optimistic and hope you have the best future ever.
I am actually not afraid of change because change is in every single day. This may sound rude, but I don’t care if I loose all my friends now in 5 years, but get new friends because I know I will make good choices. There are some friends now that are absolutely amazing that I wouldn’t trade for anything. If someone told me I am not going to be friends with them in the future I’ll be fine because I know it will be for a good reason. Good choices lead to good change.
Change, when I think of the word, is like a roller coaster. Don’t worry I won’t say with all its ups and downs. What I mean when I say change is like a roller coaster, is I mean, at first, when you’re waiting for the ride to start, it could be quite, if not a little, frightening But, once someone presses the go button, it’s like a thrill ride. So, when I think of it like that, I’m not so afraid because I know everything SHOULD turn out great. In the end, if I lose all, or most of my friends, I will be fine in the end because I know I will have more amazing friends to come. But, of course, I will miss all of you freaks that are the best of friends anyone could ask for! :)
Change is scary. Sometimes it can be good, because if you were allergic to peanuts, but you outgrown it, that is good. I just don’t like change that is bad.
I think what I like most about my life is that I have my family to help me and support me! I have my mom, grandparents, my sister, basically everyone is helping me out in my family! Recently, I have been going through a rough time recently, I like that I have people supporting me all of the way through. Also, my family is going on a few vacations in he future; Hershey Park in July and then Walt Disney World next summer. We plan on staying at Fort Wilderness resort, it should be alot of fun. I really like that my family goes on many vacations. What I like least about my life was moving from Brick to Waretown. It was also sad leaving my grandparents' house since I lived there for so long. I like Waretown, but I have a lot of good memories in Brick for a couple of years. I have my friends, my old school, and some great stuff happen to me there! I'm sure I will get use to Waretown, after all, this is my 1st year here!
Vacations are the best! I have traveled to many different countries, and many places in the US; each being an adventure. We have a family vacation planned for the end of June to Jamaica, and I can't wait! Making memories with family and friends is a wonderful experience. It allows you to look back an appreciate things that had happened in the past. Moving is a hard thing to deal with, but try to remember that you have the wonderful memories from where you were, and a very exciting new adventure that begins when you get to where you are going next. Try to embrace change... very often, if you do, great things will happen! Good Job!
I promise you Andrew, when you get used to Waretown you will have the time of your life. It is hard sometimes to be new in a town because you don't know if you are going to make friends or if the kids will like you for who you are. I promise you will fit in in Southern.
Don't worry Andrew, Waretown is an amazing town, and you WILL get used to it! I know moving can be tough, but things will get better, especially in a great town like Waretown. It's great that you have family and friends that always have your back!
I have never moved so I can’t relate. I have been in the same school district my whole life and lived in the same blue one story house my whole entire life. Sometimes I wish to have change in my life to make life fun, but I am really not sure. We always want what we don’t have.
I know what you mean about moving. My family is planning on moving soon. I haven’t told anyone that we were planning to SOON. I love Waretown, and once you get used to it too, and it will stick to you like glue. I hate the idea of moving out of the town you spent most of your life in, so I guess that’s what you are going through.
I love my family! I know you might not like what waretown has to show now, but if you leave the bad memories where they were found, they won’t come back to haunt. Just know friends and family will always be there.
The thing I like the most about my life is the fact that I have so many good friends and a wonderful family. My friends and family bring me up when I am done and always keep me smiling. I don't know what I would do without them. My family, especially, is always behind my back. They make my life so easy through some of the hard times I go through. T thing I like least about my life is that my parents are divorced. It all started about two years ago with my mom and dad fighting and with in a few days my mom, brother, and I were moving out of my dad's house. This was a very sad day for me, but luckily my friends helped me through it. Also, I get to see my dad whenever I want to. I don;t have to wait for eveyry other weekend to see him.
Family and friends will be your strength through many different experiences in life. My parents also divorced, and I remember the difficult time that my brother and I had. But, try to realize that, even though it is a hard situation right now, I'm sure they had your best interest in mind. I am sure both mom and dad still love you tremendously and would do anything for you. Unfortunately, life isn't always fair or easy...but, it looks like you are getting along well. Great job!
I admit that I don't exactly know how it feels like to have my parents divorced, but I know it must be tough. At least you have your family and friends to help you through it! I really like your answer!:)
Friends are really helpful in life! I can’t relate on any divorces, but I can imagine that was tough. I can relate that friends help on situations a lot. Sometimes you need someone to lift you up when you are down.
I have to admit that I don’t know what it’s like to have divorced parents. But, I know that friends and family can help you in almost every situation. They help you get through the toughest of times!
I don’t know how it feels to have my parents divorced, but it must be tough. Just thinking of my mom without my dad is a nightmare. I think your parents just made the decision that was best for you and your brother.
The thing I love best about my life has to be my amazing group of family and friends. I have the best family in the world (besides my brother at times), and the best friends anyone can ask for! I was joking about my brother. Kind of. But seriously, I am so lucky. There are so many kids that would give anything to live the life I live, and grow up in the place I grow up in. Take the kids in Africa for example. Kids younger than me walk miles and miles to get water, and carry it back to their house! And the water isn’t even clean. It is so unhealthy that the kids that drink it might get diseases that can possibly be fatal. But if it’s the only water source they have, then they are forced to drink it. So next time you let that leak in the bathroom drip for days, or take a twenty minute shower just because, think it over. Because all that water that is dripping, or going straight down the drain, might be the most important thing in somebody’s life. The thing I like least about my life is my brother. No, I’m just joking. :) It’s how I live so far away from my relatives on my mom’s side. They live up at the top of New York in Rochester, and it takes seven hours to get there! We only go for special holidays like Christmas, sometimes Easter, and every other year, Thanksgiving. It is especially hard now, because my grandfather has just recently been diagnosed with a stage three cancer. (There are four stages) We keep getting more news and more news, and not much of it is good. We might go visit him soon, but only for, at the most, three days. I’m still at the step of begging my parents to go! :)
I'm sure you have a wonderful group of friends and family behind your back. Sometimes it can be tough living so far from your relatives because you might miss them. At least you get to see them very once and a while.
It seems to be a common feelings among many of your classmates, that family and friends are extremely important. I couldn't agree more. I do believe that it is your family and friends that can give you the strength , support, guidance and love that you need to survive life. I also agree with feeling upset because of family living far away. As I have said, my brother, sister-in-law, and niece Fern live in Rhode Island. Although I do get to see them every couple of months or so, it still isn't the same. I do miss them terribly. Great Job!
I think I also have pretty amazing friends groups and an awesome family. All of my family luckily lives super close. My PopPop is also really sick right now and been in the hospital, but nothing as serious as cancer. I wish the best of luck to your grandfather and hopes he gets healthy.
I know what you mean about having your family live so far away. My family lives in Canada, Ohio, Texas, Colorado, Florida, even the Philippines and more! My sister and cousins live in California! Not one of my family members live in Waretown OR Ocean County. Some people in my family I haven’t even met yet. The closest family members live and hour and a half away, so I don’t really get to see them that much. I am terribly sorry about your grandfather and wish the best of luck to him!
I know what you’re going through. My aunt has glassyceoo carcinoma cancer. She is getting better, and my family is far, but I get through it, and so will you!
This is going to sound odd, but the thing I like least and the thing that I like best are the same thing. Don’t you hate when you have any negative feelings. If your dog died I would assume you would be sad. That’s what I like least, the moods that make you feel like your life is over. Even though it’s really not. Like I said earlier the thing that I like the least is also the thing that I like the best. I know what you are thinking, “So, you like being sad?!” The answer to that question is definitely no, but I also wouldn’t want my life without any sad moments. All the disappointing times make the good times seem like you have it all. If I only had happy moments I would expect everything to go my way and if it doesn’t I would be devastated. The bad times make the good times feel great. Therefore, I like the terrible times the least because who wants to feel terrible? I also like the terrible times the best because the effect of those times make everything seem like a piece of cake.
ReplyDeleteI completely agree. In a way, bad things multiply the good things. Great answer.
DeleteGreat answer. I see where you are coming from. Things happen for a reason if they are good or sad. Things get better.
DeleteWhat a great thought!! I think that is a very unique spin on the question. I never would have thought about appreciating the terrible times because they make for wonderful times! But, it is a very true statement and it definitely caused me to think! Wonderful job!!
DeleteI most definitely agree! If you were to have no mistakes, in life, you wouldn’t learn a thing. Everything happens for a reason.
DeleteJulie, I had to read this a few times because I didnt quite understand what you were saying. I understand now and your 100% accurate. The happy moments make us very jubillent, but the sad are okay too. I know the sad are not amusing but they build up our character study. And the happy are there to make us feel good.
DeleteI totally agree! This is a fantastic thought. I never reallly thought that the sad and depressing moments probably make the great and special seem like even more than before! Awesome job!
DeleteI can relate to what you are saying, I have had a lot of depressing moments in my life. They turn sad, and oddly, happy at the same time! So yes, I agree completely with what you are saying.
DeleteGreat answer. Sometimes I think about that, too. The bad times in your life make the good times seem like a piece of cake. You're right, I wouldn't want a life with no bad moments.
DeleteI never really thought about that, but now that you wrote it, it makes perfect sense! I completely agree with you! Sad feelings and depressing moments are awful, but to imagine life without them? That would be awful, too! It’s like the song Stronger, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger!” :)
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DeleteLike you said in your comment, we need the bad time to make the good times feel great. If my dog died, and I wasn’t sad, when I got a new dog, it would just feel like another day went by. We need the bad, for the good
DeleteThe best and worst things about my life are not being scared of some things. See, I am one of the few people who aren't afraid of death. Death is something that cannot be avoided. Do not wonder how or when you will die, because that will make you paranoid. When you are paranoid, you miss out on enjoying life. Meanwhile, when you are not afraid of death, you may think it is not a big deal, right? IT IS. This is a very gloomy topic, I know. Now, thinking you're immortal is possibly one of the worst things you can do. It's like me, being a martial artist, sparring someone and thinking, "Hey, he isn't going to punch me! I will win!" When the punch comes, it will hurt that much more. It's better to brace for death, unafraid, than to let your guard down, and make it weigh on you that much more.
ReplyDeleteI do fear death after witnessing it. But like Julie said you need the bad time to make those good times feel that much better. You are right death is a HUGE deal.
DeleteDeath is something that many people often worry about, and people definitely deal with it in numerous ways. I think that being afraid of things is probably a good and bad thing. Interesting thoughts.
DeleteDeath, death, and more death. It is something that happens every single day. There is no need to fear it because like you said you cannot avoid it. This is also like what Julie said in her comment and what Michael said in his reply, you have to have the lows in life, although you always want everything to be great.
DeleteI am afraid of death. Yes, I know it happens everyday and there is no way to avoid it. But, like Julie said the bad moments make the good moments feel that much better.
DeleteWow, I was not expecting that! Death is a very gloomy topic, like you said. I have to admit, I am scared of it. There are so many things I still want to do. But if we worry too much about it, then we won't do any of the things we want to do!
DeleteI didn’t completely understand what you like the least and the best. But everything that you had to say was really true! Maybe try to make the main statement a little bit clearer though.
DeleteDeath is something that happens everyday. Who knows, maybe one of those people will be someone who you know, or maybe even you. The thing is that if you let that thought affect you, you might never might be able to do the things you want to do that risk death. I must admit that I am afraid of death. But, I don’t let that stop me doing the things I love, and it shouldn’t for you either.
DeleteI completely agree with you, but sometimes we get to caught up in what’s going on in someone else's life, then to pay any attention to ours. We need to least suspect things to make us prepared for others. Anyway great comment!
DeleteDeath is something that I have trouble with since my dad died at a young age. I am not afraid of it for myself, but I am afraid of losing someone else I really love, like my mom.
DeleteThe thing I like the best about my life is that I'm able to learn things quickly. I learned multiplication quickly. I play baseball and when taught something I pick it up quickly. I do sometimes not pick up on something and take a while to get but, I do eventually get it. Somethings I will never understand though, like why we need to learn long division. The thing I like least in my life is that some school can be stressful. I have a lot of things to do sometimes. This gives me very little time to do work. The nights I have games I get one or two things of homework done. That still gives me another half hour of homework. Not all work is stressful, but sometimes it is only a little while other times it can be really stressful. So all in all my life is pretty cool. There are somethings I would like to change but can’t.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, never having enough hours in the day get done everything that needs to get done is always a problem for everyone. Learning things quickly is definitely an awesome thing to be able to do. It keeps things positive. Try not to stress too much right now in life; keep things in perspective and simply do your best. It usually all works out. Great job!
DeleteLike you pick up on things very quickly. For me too, homework can be very stressful. That’s partly why I did not partake in parcc. The stress kills me because I expect a lot from myself.
DeleteI agree Michael. After being in school many kids have after school activities that they take part in and it leaves only a small amount of time for homework. This makes homework quite stressful. I am the same way. I pick up things fast and sometimes homework is stressful for me, too.
DeleteHaving too many things to do has always been a problem of mine too! Homework is stressful for all kids. All the work piles up and piles up! I think that picking up things quickly is a great quality to have!
DeleteI completely agree! I also tend to learn stuff quickly, but some things I know I will never get good at. I also agree that work can be stressful. I often catch myself panicking over one silly thing. When I have softball games I stress over getting my homework done since I don’t have a lot of time.
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DeleteI have so much stress too! Like, for an example, this weekend I have to finish a whole rough draft, a science report, AND a science project that I didn’t even start yet! Just thinking about that all makes my stomach turn. I also think that learning stuff quickly is a great quality to have!
If we had less homework, we would be less stressful. Teachers act like we have nothing else to do but do homework, but we need it to make us stronger, and smarter. We learn things fast if we like it. Just like your homework, in order to get it!
DeleteAlthough I have many things in my life that I am very grateful for, I think that if I needed to only choose a few, the BEST days in my life would have to be when my daughters were born, and the day I married my husband. I mean, many other things have happened throughout my life that I have enjoyed, but those mentioned were definitely the BEST! I can remember the day that both my daughters were born like it was yesterday. They were so tiny, and absolutely adorable. Madison, being my first, I was thrilled to become a mom, and when Maitland was born, I couldn’t wait for her to meet her big sister, Madison. I was very excited to watch their relationship grow as siblings. Marrying my husband, well what girl wouldn’t love her wedding day! Beautiful weather, gorgeous lace dress, fabulous shoes, and our family and friends surrounding us! It was a wonderful celebration and a great party! Changing gears completely… the worst day of my life thus far was November 23rd, 2008. This is the day I found out that my father had died. He lived down in Melbourne, Florida on his sailboat. As the story goes, supposedly he had fallen overboard sometime Thursday evening, but wasn’t found until Monday morning. Unfortunately he had drowned and we got the call Monday after they had found him. It is a very surreal feeling, but I know he died doing what he loved, so I get some peace knowing that. I know he is in a better place now, and hope, perhaps, one day I will see him again.
ReplyDeleteI am sure when your daughters were born you were the happiest person in the world. Who wouldn't be? Death on the other hand, causes much sadness and tears. It is always good to think when someone dies that they died doing what they loved to do.
DeleteIt must feel great seeing your kids born, and getting married to someone you love! But of course death is basically a part of life. I haven’t witnessed much death, but things are starting to happen, as the years pass. I think that that was a very true and very good answer!
DeleteI can’t say I can relate because I don’t have kids and I am also not married. I could imagine getting married and having kids are huge moments in anyone’s life. I also didn’t have many major deaths in my life. Death can be a terrible feeling so, I understand why that probably isn’t the best thing in your life.
DeleteI can definitely think that someone’s best day of their life is when your daughters were born and when you got married! That must have been a surreal experience, and a awesome part of life! But, sadly, death is also a part of life. But, death can get better if you think of it on the bright side that he died doing something he loved to do.
DeleteI think that your dad meant to make you have your daughters, so that you have someone to think of in a loving caring way. This is tragic, but it was going to happen sooner or later, and you had your daughter to get through the loss with you. Still, I’m sorry for your loss.
DeleteWhat I like the best in life is my ability in athletics as well as my ability to do well in school. I am a smart kid (I think!), but I am very good at lacrosse and football. My favorite subject in school is math, it just comes very quickly to me. Every season I play whether it’s lacrosse or football I can’t decide on which one I like better. If I’m playing football I’ll say,” Football is my favorite sport.” Then if I’m playing lacrosse, it’ll be my favorite at the time. My LEAST favorite thing is most definitely Social Studies (history). I think that there is no point in learning about Chandragupta or any other thing/person in B.C. times. If it is something bad like the Indians being taken over, why should we have to learn about somebody else’s mistake. WHAT IS THE POINT! What already happened is in the past it can not be changed.
ReplyDeleteI see where you are coming from about the history. Why do we care about India?! They are not learning about our history or presidents! I feel the same way about my "athletic ability"
DeleteGood ideas! I think having athletic and academic abilities is definitely something that you should be proud of. Some people work extremely hard for success in both of those areas. It is awesome if they come naturally to you. I also think that I agree with you some what about history. I definitely enjoy learning about the history of OUR country and the countries around us, but B.C. times is very uninteresting to me. Great job!
DeleteI think having athletic abilities is very useful. It could get you a scholarship for college and you wouldn't have to pay anything. I agree with you when you said you hate social studies. I think it is useless information. But as my teacher says, "They teach you about it so it doesn't happen again."
DeleteI think it’s great that academics, and athletics come easy to you! And I COMPLETELY agree with you about history. I don’t care about anything that happens B.M., before ME!
DeleteI absolutely agree nobody needs to know why Chandragupta conquered Magadha. We are only going to forget everything we learned over summer break. Teachers always say we learn history so we don’t make the same mistakes, but it’s hard to compare things when the past and future are so different. The United States is probably not going to conquer any temples so, we can’t make the mistakes they made. We should be looking what is in front of us not in the past.
DeleteI think being smart and athletic is very useful. But, personally, I disagree with you about social studies. People say that what’s the point! The U.S. and India have nothing in common! We should be focusing on the future not the past! But, how do you know that in the future we won’t be doing stuff that we did in the past, or what other countries did? That’s the thing, you DON’T. I don’t like learning about history, but I do think that we need to learn it. The past and the future could be very similar in bad ways and good ways, or the could be very different. We just don’t know, but we need to make sure it’s not the same in bad ways. Who knows, maybe we will be conquering temples soon in the future? You just don’t know that the future and the past will be different.
DeleteI completely agree with you. What is the point of anything that didn’t happen in the US, but we learn so history doesn't repeat itself. Things will change, and we don’t want another World War, so it is important.
DeleteI know what you’re probably thinking, that the worst thing about my life is that I get bullied by some people, but it’s not. Its that I’m not as skinny as you would expect me to be. Yes, I know it doesn’t matter at the end of the day what other people think of me , it’s what i think of myself, and it doesn’t matter what I look like, it’s what I feel like. At least in the future I know it’s not what I look like, it’s all about what my special skills in life. The best thing in life is that I have friend who like me for no matter what I look like. That my friends will always be there for me when I sad. Now, the worst thing in my life, is solved by my friends who care. I have friends, who love me for me, so weight, and size doesn’t matter as much.
ReplyDeleteAndie, I’m really surprised that you think that of yourself! What you said is completely true, it doesn’t matter what other people think of you, it’s what you think of yourself/what you feel like. Then having friends who can help you is even better.
DeleteUnfortunately, that is definitely something that you should not be worrying about at this point in your life! You are way too young to think that you are "fat." Also, it is not healthy to consume yourself with those kinds of thoughts. You are a very pretty young lady, and you are athletic. Always keep in perspective that muscle weighs more than fat! It is a good weight! I am glad that you have friends that care about you. That is always a blessing in life. Good job!
DeleteI'm surprised you think that of yourself. It doesn't matter what other people think of you. They should like you for who you are. Not try to change you and make you feel horrible about yourself.
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DeleteAndie, no, no, no, no, no, no! PLEASE don’t think that of yourself, because it’s not true! And it doesn’t matter what you look like, like you said in your comment. I also agree with you that friends are who bring you up when you’re down. I think everyone deserves a friend, no matter who they are, or what they look like.
Andie, you were really brave for saying that. I have to agree sometimes I look in the mirror and I am not happy with what I see and want to change myself, but I NEVER look in the mirror and think what I like about myself. I think you should do that more, look in the mirror and say what you like about yourself.
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DeleteAndie, you are way to young to think about that! You actually should never be thinking about that! But, I do think you are brave that you were able to say that to everyone. Still, don’t worry about that. And, like you said in your comment, in the end, what’s in the inside counts the most above everything. And, friends help you feel that way.
ReplyDeleteWell, I love my life. I wouldn’t trade my life in for anybody’s life, even famous people. But, obviously I must have a least favorite part of my life. Mine is all the pressure. I HATE the pressure. I know that hate is a strong word, but I do strongly hate the pressure. Yeah, I know you might say that “just ignore it” or “don’t worry about it” but that’s the thing. I CAN’T. Some people might know what I’m talking about and some people have no clue. If you are one of those people who have no clue what it’s like to have so pressure on you, I despise you. I get pressured with my grades, sports, pretty much everything. I wish all the pressure would just… disppear. But, of course it won’t. No matter what you say like “you’re not under pressure, it’s fine if you don’t win” or “don’t worry, it will all go away. It will all be okay.” It won’t. Trust me, I should know. Whenever I say I don’t like the pressure EVERYONE says that, and it’s just not true.
The best part of life is ,well, all of the good friends and family. You know how I said everything about the pressure? Well, all my freinds and family TRY to make things better and I appreciate it, I really do. I know there are bad moments that happen with my family and friends. But, that’s really all they are. Moments of bad times hidden in years, even decades, of fantastic, special, great times.
I feel the same way. If I’m playing in a lacrosse or football game I get really stressed because if I make a mistake, I know that my coach or my dad will absolutely yell at me. Also in school if i get a bad grade I get really mad at myself because I know I can do better than that. I put a lot of unwanted stress/pressure on myself. And I’m sure many others do too.
DeletePressure is something that will never go away. Unfortunately, it is an issue that you will deal with for the majority of your life. My advice to you would be to try and learn different ways to handle it. Also, try not to "sweat the small stuff." There are different levels of stress and pressure for different things. If it is something big, by all means, feel the pressure...but maintain composure and try to handle it with as much control as possible. Friends and family are always a huge part of keeping you grounded. Never lose sight of that, and be appreciative each and every day. Great job!
DeleteI love my life, too. Pressure sometimes cant be ignored and I know that for a fact. You just have ignore it or walk away from it.
DeleteI feel pressure too! No matter what we do it will always be there. We just have to try are best (although it’s very hard) to get over it. Friends and family will always be there for you though, and that’s what eases the pain of pressure! I don’t know how anyone could do without them!
DeleteI think EVERYONE deals with pressure. If nobody is giving you pressure I bet you are giving yourself pressure. People in my class expect me to get the highest grades and that’s a lot of pressure. But I think I give myself more pressure because for some reason I think ONE test grade will determine my future. I know my friends really don’t care if I do bad on a test, but I do. That’s the thing sometimes I put so much pressure on myself it’s overwhelming.
DeletePressure, should not be a part of our life when we are this young. Family, friends can always get you out of the dumps when you have pressure. Things will change, and so will the pressure, so be ready.
DeleteThe best and worst things? Interesting question. I guess the worst thing in life is telling yourself you're changing. In about 10 years what we have now won't be the same anymore. It gives me chills thinking about it. We might not have the same friends. We might not have the same home. We might not have the same life. The best thing is when youre changed you think back to when you were in pre school and all you cared about was unicorn stickers and naptime. Now youre thinking about school work and pressure. I know what your thinking: “ That confusing. You like thinking back to before change, but you dont like thinking of upcoming changes?” I know I confused myself to a little. But what I mean is you are scared of change until it accualy happens. Its like an akward ice cream flavor that you dont want to try, but is accualy amazing. If you get where Im going then you understand that change is scary. Its one of the the worlds biggest fears. But change is also okay.
ReplyDeleteChange and uncertainty is always something that weigh heavy on everyone's mind. The fear of the unknown is a major issue. However, it is also a very exciting issue. Growing up can be scary, but with each passing year comes new adventures and new opportunities that you didn't have before. And, before you know it, everything will be different. But, change is good. So, as frightening as it may be, try to embrace change and face it head on; you can't avoid it. Great job!
DeleteChange sometimes can be quite frightening. You are right when you are changing you think back to the times when you are in preschool and naptime. You just have to be optimistic and hope you have the best future ever.
DeleteI am actually not afraid of change because change is in every single day. This may sound rude, but I don’t care if I loose all my friends now in 5 years, but get new friends because I know I will make good choices. There are some friends now that are absolutely amazing that I wouldn’t trade for anything. If someone told me I am not going to be friends with them in the future I’ll be fine because I know it will be for a good reason. Good choices lead to good change.
DeleteChange, when I think of the word, is like a roller coaster. Don’t worry I won’t say with all its ups and downs. What I mean when I say change is like a roller coaster, is I mean, at first, when you’re waiting for the ride to start, it could be quite, if not a little, frightening But, once someone presses the go button, it’s like a thrill ride. So, when I think of it like that, I’m not so afraid because I know everything SHOULD turn out great. In the end, if I lose all, or most of my friends, I will be fine in the end because I know I will have more amazing friends to come. But, of course, I will miss all of you freaks that are the best of friends anyone could ask for! :)
DeleteChange is scary. Sometimes it can be good, because if you were allergic to peanuts, but you outgrown it, that is good. I just don’t like change that is bad.
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DeleteI think what I like most about my life is that I have my family to help me and support me! I have my mom, grandparents, my sister, basically everyone is helping me out in my family! Recently, I have been going through a rough time recently, I like that I have people supporting me all of the way through. Also, my family is going on a few vacations in he future; Hershey Park in July and then Walt Disney World next summer. We plan on staying at Fort Wilderness resort, it should be alot of fun. I really like that my family goes on many vacations. What I like least about my life was moving from Brick to Waretown. It was also sad leaving my grandparents' house since I lived there for so long. I like Waretown, but I have a lot of good memories in Brick for a couple of years. I have my friends, my old school, and some great stuff happen to me there! I'm sure I will get use to Waretown, after all, this is my 1st year here!
ReplyDeleteVacations are the best! I have traveled to many different countries, and many places in the US; each being an adventure. We have a family vacation planned for the end of June to Jamaica, and I can't wait! Making memories with family and friends is a wonderful experience. It allows you to look back an appreciate things that had happened in the past. Moving is a hard thing to deal with, but try to remember that you have the wonderful memories from where you were, and a very exciting new adventure that begins when you get to where you are going next. Try to embrace change... very often, if you do, great things will happen! Good Job!
DeleteI promise you Andrew, when you get used to Waretown you will have the time of your life. It is hard sometimes to be new in a town because you don't know if you are going to make friends or if the kids will like you for who you are. I promise you will fit in in Southern.
DeleteDon't worry Andrew, Waretown is an amazing town, and you WILL get used to it! I know moving can be tough, but things will get better, especially in a great town like Waretown. It's great that you have family and friends that always have your back!
DeleteI have never moved so I can’t relate. I have been in the same school district my whole life and lived in the same blue one story house my whole entire life. Sometimes I wish to have change in my life to make life fun, but I am really not sure. We always want what we don’t have.
DeleteI know what you mean about moving. My family is planning on moving soon. I haven’t told anyone that we were planning to SOON. I love Waretown, and once you get used to it too, and it will stick to you like glue. I hate the idea of moving out of the town you spent most of your life in, so I guess that’s what you are going through.
DeleteI love my family! I know you might not like what waretown has to show now, but if you leave the bad memories where they were found, they won’t come back to haunt. Just know friends and family will always be there.
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DeleteThe thing I like the most about my life is the fact that I have so many good friends and a wonderful family. My friends and family bring me up when I am done and always keep me smiling. I don't know what I would do without them. My family, especially, is always behind my back. They make my life so easy through some of the hard times I go through. T thing I like least about my life is that my parents are divorced. It all started about two years ago with my mom and dad fighting and with in a few days my mom, brother, and I were moving out of my dad's house. This was a very sad day for me, but luckily my friends helped me through it. Also, I get to see my dad whenever I want to. I don;t have to wait for eveyry other weekend to see him.
ReplyDeleteFamily and friends will be your strength through many different experiences in life. My parents also divorced, and I remember the difficult time that my brother and I had. But, try to realize that, even though it is a hard situation right now, I'm sure they had your best interest in mind. I am sure both mom and dad still love you tremendously and would do anything for you. Unfortunately, life isn't always fair or easy...but, it looks like you are getting along well. Great job!
DeleteI admit that I don't exactly know how it feels like to have my parents divorced, but I know it must be tough. At least you have your family and friends to help you through it! I really like your answer!:)
DeleteFriends are really helpful in life! I can’t relate on any divorces, but I can imagine that was tough. I can relate that friends help on situations a lot. Sometimes you need someone to lift you up when you are down.
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DeleteI have to admit that I don’t know what it’s like to have divorced parents. But, I know that friends and family can help you in almost every situation. They help you get through the toughest of times!
I don’t know how it feels to have my parents divorced, but it must be tough. Just thinking of my mom without my dad is a nightmare. I think your parents just made the decision that was best for you and your brother.
DeleteThe thing I love best about my life has to be my amazing group of family and friends. I have the best family in the world (besides my brother at times), and the best friends anyone can ask for! I was joking about my brother. Kind of. But seriously, I am so lucky. There are so many kids that would give anything to live the life I live, and grow up in the place I grow up in. Take the kids in Africa for example. Kids younger than me walk miles and miles to get water, and carry it back to their house! And the water isn’t even clean. It is so unhealthy that the kids that drink it might get diseases that can possibly be fatal. But if it’s the only water source they have, then they are forced to drink it. So next time you let that leak in the bathroom drip for days, or take a twenty minute shower just because, think it over. Because all that water that is dripping, or going straight down the drain, might be the most important thing in somebody’s life.
ReplyDeleteThe thing I like least about my life is my brother. No, I’m just joking. :) It’s how I live so far away from my relatives on my mom’s side. They live up at the top of New York in Rochester, and it takes seven hours to get there! We only go for special holidays like Christmas, sometimes Easter, and every other year, Thanksgiving. It is especially hard now, because my grandfather has just recently been diagnosed with a stage three cancer. (There are four stages) We keep getting more news and more news, and not much of it is good. We might go visit him soon, but only for, at the most, three days. I’m still at the step of begging my parents to go! :)
I'm sure you have a wonderful group of friends and family behind your back. Sometimes it can be tough living so far from your relatives because you might miss them. At least you get to see them very once and a while.
DeleteIt seems to be a common feelings among many of your classmates, that family and friends are extremely important. I couldn't agree more. I do believe that it is your family and friends that can give you the strength , support, guidance and love that you need to survive life. I also agree with feeling upset because of family living far away. As I have said, my brother, sister-in-law, and niece Fern live in Rhode Island. Although I do get to see them every couple of months or so, it still isn't the same. I do miss them terribly. Great Job!
DeleteI think I also have pretty amazing friends groups and an awesome family. All of my family luckily lives super close. My PopPop is also really sick right now and been in the hospital, but nothing as serious as cancer. I wish the best of luck to your grandfather and hopes he gets healthy.
DeleteI know what you mean about having your family live so far away. My family lives in Canada, Ohio, Texas, Colorado, Florida, even the Philippines and more! My sister and cousins live in California! Not one of my family members live in Waretown OR Ocean County. Some people in my family I haven’t even met yet. The closest family members live and hour and a half away, so I don’t really get to see them that much. I am terribly sorry about your grandfather and wish the best of luck to him!
DeleteI know what you’re going through. My aunt has glassyceoo carcinoma cancer. She is getting better, and my family is far, but I get through it, and so will you!
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